Then, you can either send them a message or send them a “flirt
- Can take you a while to make a success of it
The most popular hookup site in the world, Adult Friend Finder caters to literally every sexual preference you can think of. Once your account is up and running and you’ve chosen a subscription package, you just need to tweak your search settings. However, a major problem is that you can’t specify that you’re looking for a married person who’s looking for an affair.
That said, many users here have no scruples and there are many who won’t mind that you’re looking to have an affair, even if they’re not. If you like the look of someone, you can view their profile to find out more about who they are and what they might be up for. ” If they like you too, they’ll get back to you.
I didn’t find it hard to land a few hookups because many of the active users are looking for something casual. As I said, you can’t specify “married person” in the search filter, so you will need to spend time checking out the profiles to see what they’re up for.
Also, whilst it’s difficult to find users who would be up for cheating with you, you can specify exactly what you’re looking for in your profile (Relationship status). This will help people find you.
- Millions of users
- Lots of features, including webcam shows and adult movies
- Caters to all kinds of sexual preferences
- Basic layout
- Will be too explicit for some
3. Victoria Milan
Victoria Milan is an affair site aimed at people who are arital affairs. It’s discreet, comes with a very useful Panic Button if you need to hide your profile super fast, and it’s really easy to use and sign up to. Other useful feature includes an Anonymous Blur tool that lets you privatize your pics.
You can search according to a user’s last login time, which is great for convenience, but you’ll find that users can change their exact location whenever they want. For example, if you live in New York, you could say that you live in California. This can get a tad confusing, but it’s designed to help people stay as safe and anonymous as possible.
Users on VictoriaMilan take it very seriously, so whenever you shoot a message, you’ll need to make sure you’ve completed your profile first. You’ll also need to upgrade your account and choose a payment plan because basic users can only view profiles – they can’t send messages.
I found that the key to success is a) completing your profile as thoroughly as possible b) uploading your best pics where you look approachable and sexy but not seedy, and c) being polite, respectful, and flirty. That said, one of the best features of this affair site is that you can send people gifts that are either naughty or nice. There’s nothing wrong with something naughty now and then – sometimes it definitely works!
- Easy-to-use website
- Excellent tools and features
- Perfect for married couples looking for romance
4. Marital Affair
Marital Affair’s slogan is “where the grass is always greener.” In other words, if your partner isn’t doing it for you anymore, it’s time to look elsewhere! Marital Affair is fairly low in traffic compared to the other dating sites on this list and is home to less than a million users. However, its features are good, the customer service is fine and there’s still a lot to like about this dating site.